Fred's Story - A Grateful Member
In January 2006 when I went for a routine blood test the nurse asked me if I had ever had my PSA level checked. I didn't know what that meant and she explained it was a check for Prostate Cancer. I asked her to tick the box, although I had no reason to think I had a problem.
The result of this and other tests confirmed my PSA level was high and I had Prostate Cancer.
After hormone treatment and radiotherapy I was rather low and not sure whether my symptoms after treatment were to be expected.
I saw a small article in the Swindon Advertiser about a group called 'abc affected by cancer'. I went to the next meeting and was made to feel at ease and very welcome. Since then I haven't looked back.
The abc group helped me learn to live with cancer at the time, as some members had been down the same route as me and I was able to talk to them and gain support.
Eventually I was able to give the same support to other new members.
As time went by, I began to feel there was a need for a 'men only' support group. Men are usually less open than women and often less able to talk about their problems. So with the help of a professional person from the hospital I applied to Macmillan for funding to set up a 'Men's Group'. This has been running for many years now.
I would recommend abc as a group for anyone who has suffered cancer, or been affected by the illness suffered by a relative or partner. We are a very happy and welcoming group.
UPDATE: Since writing this early history of my cancer journey, I have become more involved in the general running of abc.
As a committee member I have helped to organise outings, holidays, meals out and local supermarket collection days. I have also had several contact meetings with the local Rotary groups which has generated more interest in us and prompted them to donate much needed funding.
I am proud to have been Chair of the group for the past two years.
Fred Bassett